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Post by xxx Amanda xxx on Jul 26, 2003 10:16:49 GMT -5
it sounds to me like you have found a really great guy, i wish you all the luck in the world. I hope everything works out for you i really do, you deserve a little happiness . keep us posted on how you are getting on Brightest blessings Amanda
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milknsnickers
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Post by milknsnickers on Jul 27, 2003 14:14:22 GMT -5
Hey, I'm not quiet sure what to say, thats why its taken me so long to reply. I want to thank you all for all the advice, I'm going to keep it all in mind! There are no updates on this... yet! I will be sure to keep y'all posted! Again, Thank y'all for everything! You guys are great ;D
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Post by milknsnickers on Aug 30, 2003 23:22:17 GMT -5
Hey for those of yall who are keeping track: Today he called and asked my mom if we could date, and she said no that she didnt even want us talking but to call her at Christmas break.
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Post by jadedsage on Aug 30, 2003 23:54:34 GMT -5
Well, I'm pleased to see he tried calling your mother. I know she said no right now, but the fact that she said to call her back at christmas break sounds promising. Hang in there!
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Post by sistergoldenhair on Aug 31, 2003 0:57:56 GMT -5
ive been reading over the posts here. first i'd like to wish you the best of luck. second, i would like to suggest the use of a condom (using the ones with spermicide is even better) as well as the patch. no birth control is 100% affective. well, except abstinence, of course.
good luck, sgh
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Post by milknsnickers on Oct 24, 2003 12:53:09 GMT -5
Well I've got some good news everyone!!! Saturday he got kicked out of his house( thats not the good news, but we knew it was gonna happen so it wasnt that bad), and he called me and asked if he could spend the night and my mom said yes. She made me sleep in her bed in him in mine, but we actually got to see each other and we got to talk. He called Monday night and asked if he could come over for a little while and again my mom said yes. She told us he could come over as long as she was home, until we gained her trust again. But we can see each other now and we are really happy!!! Ill still keep yall updated if you want tho ;D Thanks for everything Jessi
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Post by jadedsage on Oct 24, 2003 19:47:41 GMT -5
Well, I'm very glad for the both of you. It seems that things are looking up for you. Just keep up the good work, and earn your mom's trust again. Don't rush things. I'm really very happy for you both! Thanks for the post to keep us informed!!
Bless'd Be
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Post by milknsnickers on Nov 22, 2003 18:29:10 GMT -5
Well, we've already screwed ourselfs over. *sigh* Why we didn't wait, I dunno, but now we've gotta wait till I move out to see each other. 7months and 2 weeks and 4 days and counting... Thats a long time to wait, but I know we can do it. But Goddess I miss him!!! He occaisionally tries to call even though he's not supposed to. It makes me feel somewhat better cuz I know hes still thinking about me....
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Post by jadedsage on Nov 23, 2003 17:15:30 GMT -5
What did you do?!?! Things were going so well. So, when you move out.....where to? To what?
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Post by milknsnickers on Nov 30, 2003 19:19:34 GMT -5
I'll probably end up moving in with him or with one of my friends. But either way its definately something thats gotta happen whether him and i are together or not.
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Post by jadedsage on Nov 30, 2003 20:29:32 GMT -5
Do you intend to continue your schooling? i.e. college? Or just getting employment?
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Post by Sidhe Ravenwitch on Jan 17, 2004 15:48:13 GMT -5
Well, im a little late into this but my first question is what did you do to screw it up? Does your mom have grounds for her reaction? If so you need toreevaluate your own actions and work on repairing the damage. Whether or not you have to wait the 7 months and choose to move out you should still try to repair your relationship with your mom. I spent years fighting with my mom and i moved out at 17. It wasnt until i was in my late 20's and had moved five states away that we started to get along. Im thirty five now and my mom just passed away and i feel cheated because i wasted so many years fighting with her when we could have worked on beign friends. AT your age i know its hard to think of those things but I everyday I regret the time lost with my mom. Please think about this before you do anything or atleast keep it in mind when you are trying to work on things with your mom. I wish you the best of luck.
BB sidhe If you need to talk feel free to im me my msn id is sidheravenwitch and yahoo is celticwitch12000
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Post by milknsnickers on Feb 21, 2004 13:44:18 GMT -5
Yeah she had reason to, she caught us having sex, well not actually but the evidence was all there. But the good thing is she has finally allowed us to see each other again as long as there is a parent there. In all reality we probably have more freedom now because we are allowed to spend the night at one anothers houses now, although if its my mom i have to sleep in the bed with her, but its all good. About my relationship with my mom, things arent nearly as bad as they have been known to be. She made us both start "counciling" recently. I still plan on moving out when I turn 17 though. I'm either gonna move in w/ my brother and sister-in-law, him(my boyfriend), or my best friend. Im not sure which yet. BB Jessi
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Post by milknsnickers on Mar 27, 2004 14:08:18 GMT -5
well we are back together again thanks to a trip to walmart and alot of help from his mom. Long story tho lol. But i just thought id let yall know
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Post by Sidhe Ravenwitch on Mar 28, 2004 1:28:33 GMT -5
Im gald to hear things are working out on both ends. Perhaps moving out may ormay not work out for you. My mother and I didnt develop and good relationship or friendship until after i moved out and had kids. Before she died we had become very close. I regret the years wasted so I am very glad that you are getting on better. It is terrible to lose a loved one feeling like you could have had more. I will be praying for the best for you and your mom and you and your boyfriend. If you ever need me im here. love and hugs Sidhe
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